Before Anyone ElseSkills Lab

A collection of short, interactive tools about consent, boundaries, and what a healthy relationship actually looks like.

Boundary Flags

Sort 25 real situations into green, yellow, and red flags. This game helps you identify, sort, and understand your own boundaries.

5 min Open

Partner Nutrition Label

Every food has a label so you can decide what's good for you. Relationships don't — so build your own and keep it as a bookmark.

3–8 min Open

Supporting a Survivor: Helpful or Harmful?

Swipe through things people actually say to survivors and sort what helps from what hurts — before you're the one who has to say something.

3 min Open

Reset Kit

Guided breathing and grounding for when you're overwhelmed, numb, or checked out.

Under 2 min Open

Listen Closer

Spin the wheel, hear a clip from a song everyone knows, then decide together: are these lyrics healthy or unhealthy?

5 min Open

SafeBAE Jeopardy

Test your knowledge of all things consent and healthy relationships with this 25-question game show style activity.

10–30 min Open

Free · 16 modules

Become a Certified Peer Educator

Dive deeper into consent, healthy relationships, violence prevention, and accountability with SafeBAE's Certified Peer Educator Training — a free, 16-module program that prepares students to lead prevention work and help shift the culture at your school.

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Vibe Check · checkyourvibe.org

A private place to think things through

A private, self-guided space for anyone wondering whether they — or a friend — may have caused harm. It walks through what accountability and repair can look like. No account, nothing stored.

Open Vibe Check

Free · Self-paced

Take the AI Literacy Training

A free, self-paced program for high school and college students. It has six modules on how AI works, where it can go wrong, and what it means for relationships, consent, privacy, and images of you, plus additional resources on all things AI.

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Choking Hazard · chokinghazard.org

There’s no safe way to choke someone during sex

Sexual strangulation (aka choking) has become common among young people. Explore new research, learn where to get help if it happens, and analyze how choking shows up in some of the most popular media you already consume.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Our answers to some of the questions students ask us most.

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